Sakura at Meguro River, Japan
Cr. to Danny Choo
Friday, May 10, 2013
Monday, April 29, 2013
尊敬
從小, 我們就被灌輸尊師重道, 尊敬父母, 長輩的道理. 可是, 尊敬真正的意義是什麽卻至今都還無法理解.或許你會說不過一個二十二歲的小女孩,懂什麽. 但是,我相信,我比許多同齡人都還要明白尊敬他人和被尊敬的重要性. 當然, 我並不能說我有多深的體會, 我只是希望把我自身的體驗和感想分享給你.
對於我而言, 應受到尊敬的人並不限制于長輩而已,還有同輩或後輩,甚至是小孩. 或許我是錯的,但是我發現從來只有後輩尊敬長輩, 卻沒有長輩尊敬後輩. 爲什麽呢? 就因為年紀比較小,後輩們就沒有被人尊敬的理由了嗎? 那麼, 長輩們被尊敬的理由除了年紀比較大之外又還有什麽呢?我想, 那才是最重要的因素.
真正的尊敬是打從心裡的, 並不是嘴上說的, 更是不可以被強迫的. 被尊敬的理由有很多, 因人而異. 被尊敬的程度也可以有所不同. 但是, 無論現在你是多麼地被敬重, 要是你不珍惜或不感謝它, 反而覺得是理所當然的, 那麼總有一天, 你將會永遠地失去它. 就算是最親的親人, 也不例外.
以你想被對待的態度對待別人, 但不刻意討好, 更不以牙還牙. 這是我一向待人處事的原則. 我深信人與人之間的感情是互給的. 很多時候, 縱使我再好地對待某人, 他卻不領情, 或覺得那是應該的而不削給予我同等的對待, 那麼不管你是誰, 我都不會再以同樣的態度對待你. 這包括我對人的尊敬. 雖然是後輩, 我還是有自尊心的, 還是需要被他人尊重的. 倘若你仗著是長輩的身份而濫用我對你的尊敬, 強迫我, 貶低我, 傷害我, 就算是最最最親的人, 就算我有多麼地尊敬你, 你都會失去我對你的那份敬意. 到最後, 剩下的就只是那濃於水的血緣關係. 除此之外, 什麽感情都沒有了. 那不是很可悲嗎?
反之, 就算你不認識我, 但你卻很真誠地對待人, 我還是會尊敬你. 就如很多人尊敬名人一樣, 我最近也認識了讓我非常尊敬的一組人. 雖然他們不是什麽大名人, 平均年齡也只大我三歲, 但他們四人卻讓我要以他們為榜樣. 約十一年前, 才不過平均十五歲的國中和高中生爲了追逐夢想, 抱著忐忑的心情離開了家, 一起到另一個縣打拼. 他們不斷地努力, 遇到挫折也永不言棄, 一路向前沖, 沖到了今天的成就. 可是, 最讓我尊敬的隊長卻在最近離隊了. 儘管如此, 所有的人不但沒有責怪他, 反而是不捨和更多的支持. 爲什麽呢? 因為尊敬. 十一年來, 身為隊長的他事事以團隊為先, 處處以粉絲們為主. 明明就是個害羞的人, 卻因為是隊長, 凡事都率先帶領團員們向前進. 就算到了今天, 名氣不斷上升, 他們都還是非常謙虛并時常對一直支持者他們的人表達感謝之意. 他們不擺架子, 謙虛, 以真心對待他人, 就是我尊敬他們最大的原因.
尊敬, 是以行動, 誠心, 而不是因年齡獲得的. 所有人都有被敬重的資格.
對於我而言, 應受到尊敬的人並不限制于長輩而已,還有同輩或後輩,甚至是小孩. 或許我是錯的,但是我發現從來只有後輩尊敬長輩, 卻沒有長輩尊敬後輩. 爲什麽呢? 就因為年紀比較小,後輩們就沒有被人尊敬的理由了嗎? 那麼, 長輩們被尊敬的理由除了年紀比較大之外又還有什麽呢?我想, 那才是最重要的因素.
真正的尊敬是打從心裡的, 並不是嘴上說的, 更是不可以被強迫的. 被尊敬的理由有很多, 因人而異. 被尊敬的程度也可以有所不同. 但是, 無論現在你是多麼地被敬重, 要是你不珍惜或不感謝它, 反而覺得是理所當然的, 那麼總有一天, 你將會永遠地失去它. 就算是最親的親人, 也不例外.
以你想被對待的態度對待別人, 但不刻意討好, 更不以牙還牙. 這是我一向待人處事的原則. 我深信人與人之間的感情是互給的. 很多時候, 縱使我再好地對待某人, 他卻不領情, 或覺得那是應該的而不削給予我同等的對待, 那麼不管你是誰, 我都不會再以同樣的態度對待你. 這包括我對人的尊敬. 雖然是後輩, 我還是有自尊心的, 還是需要被他人尊重的. 倘若你仗著是長輩的身份而濫用我對你的尊敬, 強迫我, 貶低我, 傷害我, 就算是最最最親的人, 就算我有多麼地尊敬你, 你都會失去我對你的那份敬意. 到最後, 剩下的就只是那濃於水的血緣關係. 除此之外, 什麽感情都沒有了. 那不是很可悲嗎?
反之, 就算你不認識我, 但你卻很真誠地對待人, 我還是會尊敬你. 就如很多人尊敬名人一樣, 我最近也認識了讓我非常尊敬的一組人. 雖然他們不是什麽大名人, 平均年齡也只大我三歲, 但他們四人卻讓我要以他們為榜樣. 約十一年前, 才不過平均十五歲的國中和高中生爲了追逐夢想, 抱著忐忑的心情離開了家, 一起到另一個縣打拼. 他們不斷地努力, 遇到挫折也永不言棄, 一路向前沖, 沖到了今天的成就. 可是, 最讓我尊敬的隊長卻在最近離隊了. 儘管如此, 所有的人不但沒有責怪他, 反而是不捨和更多的支持. 爲什麽呢? 因為尊敬. 十一年來, 身為隊長的他事事以團隊為先, 處處以粉絲們為主. 明明就是個害羞的人, 卻因為是隊長, 凡事都率先帶領團員們向前進. 就算到了今天, 名氣不斷上升, 他們都還是非常謙虛并時常對一直支持者他們的人表達感謝之意. 他們不擺架子, 謙虛, 以真心對待他人, 就是我尊敬他們最大的原因.
尊敬, 是以行動, 誠心, 而不是因年齡獲得的. 所有人都有被敬重的資格.
Tuesday, April 16, 2013
Sakura from Japan
It's that time of Sakura blooming all over Japan again. And again, I can only look at the pictures.. haiz.... But! I'm sure there'll come a day I can see the actual Sakura~~ I'll work hard and pray hard for it...hahaha~~ Anyway, thought I should share some of the beautiful pictures here with you. They are really pretty~~~
So, enjoy!! Hope they'll enlighten your mood for the day~~
Pictures are from
http://www.dannychoo.com/post/en/26494/Japan+Cherry+Blossom+Photos.html should you be looking for more~~
So, enjoy!! Hope they'll enlighten your mood for the day~~
Pictures are from
http://www.dannychoo.com/post/en/26494/Japan+Cherry+Blossom+Photos.html should you be looking for more~~
Thursday, March 28, 2013
Wisdom Tooth??
Ahh~~ it hurts!! It has been 2 or 3 days now. The inner most of my upper gum has been hurting and it's the worst today! I couldn't open my mouth to have my breakfast without hurting. Traced the area with my tongue and feels like it's my wisdom tooth coming out, but I wonder. Should I go to the dentist? Or just leave it for a few more days and see how it goes? I have experienced this before but it only lasted a few days. Maybe I should wait huh......
Anyway, IT HURTS!!! (T___T)
Anyway, IT HURTS!!! (T___T)
Sunday, March 24, 2013
Back in action (?)
Hello everyone! Konnichiwa!! It's been a long long time since I come here, last post was September 2010 @@!! Minna-san ohisashiburi!
A lot has changed in these 2 half years. First, I am going to graduate as an ACCA student this September ( I pray hard for it >< ) and am starting to think of my career and my future. Have my resume ready (CV not just yet) and starting to look for positions availability in the industry. After a little digging around, I found out that it won't be as easy as it used to be to get a job here in Ipoh. Seems that not only the number of accounting students but the graduates who are staying behind in Ipoh has increased over the years as well. Seems like the possibility of me going out to KL is fairly high. It's not certain, so we'll see.
Then, I think I've changed too. Not to say I've changed personality/ character wise, but definitely the mentality aspect. To the better though, so no worries! ^^ How have I changed huh? I think I'm wiser than before? No, not becoming a philosopher kind of wise, but I do think that I have matured a bit. I start to accept things that I've always rejected. Knowing that this is the nature of it, so why not just accept them, and see the good in them rather than torturing yourself by rejecting them while you have to live with it. Accepting others' faults definitely makes live easier :) But of course you can't just blindly accept everything. If it's wrong in the first place, if it harms others, living or not, physically or mentally, then it's wrong. *Sounds so old, maybe I am getting old..... ><
Hmm, what else happened. OH! This I can never miss telling even though as my friends you should already know. I LOVE LEAD!!LEAD DAISUKI DESU!! This is my blog, so at least let me fatt hao here. Blek! So! A brief intro on my favorite LEAD. Members are Nakadoi Hiroki (he's leaving the group end of this month! Sobs~ ) , Taniuchi Shinya ( their otosan..LOL~), Furuya Keita and Kagimoto Akira (my fav..hehe~). Age: 28, 26, 25, 25. For some reasons, they are looking cuter and cuter as they grow. Why ah? I'm constantly reading their blog as you know. They are just adorable~~~ the way they speak, their emoticons are so cute! Japan's emoticons are so different from ours! And they are very sweet too! Always thinking of their fans, asking for the fans' thoughts and also their well-being. They had a party this Friday and the next day they were worried about the fans' muscle pain. Aren't they sweet?? So sweet~~ huhu~~
Alright alright, I'll spare you from my hao-ness * my English is getting less and less proper here. There is another reason why I'm always reading their blog. That's 'cause I've started to learn Japanese. Though I don't know much yet, but reading their blogs definitely help improve my Japanese. Besides, it's fun to read their blogs and I get to learn new words, so why not? Still waiting for my study material from a certain someone. When will you come back????
Back to the topic. What else have changed? Hmm... My cousin Raymond from Australia got engaged!! Congrats!! I like his fiancee, Amy, very cheerful and friendly. Bought me a new blouse from Padini, treated me and my mum Chatime, Wendy's and many more! Hahaha~ Went climbing Bukit Kledang twice with them and I think I like it too...let's go climb it together someday!
And then err, looked at my pictures from a few years back. Don't think my appearance changed much, besides my teeth. Looked at my friends' as well and I think they've changed so much! They looked more mature and their styles changed too! From long hair to short, short to long, black to brown, straightened, etc etc. And their apparels too...we used to just wear t-shirts and shorts but some of them are actually following the trend. They still wear t-shirts and shorts a lot but at least they've started to be more in-trend while I'm still t-shirts and shorts all the way~~~~~~ Oh well, maybe when I'm finally getting to work, I'll be more aware of the trends :/
OKAY! This is getting long. I should just list out what else happened. Well, my mum fell down at Mydin's travelator and suffered femur fracture. Operated and is now walking like normal. I'm still running errands all around town as usual. And! I miss my friends!! Please fast fast come back~~~
Lastly, can't forget 311 Japan's earthquake/ tsunami. That was horrible. Read Danny Choo's *another blog I'm reading a lot as you may already know, he went to the towns which are worst hit by the tsunami and covered a few posts on it. Saw the pictures, they totally get to me. Everything was terribly damaged. Houses collapsed to their sides, some burned, some wrecked; ships and boats a few km on shore; people lost their home and some even lost their families and friends. It was heart breaking to see it even just through photos. Despite all that, the Japanese are now back on their feet, still working hard on the restoration but they are together as one. Gotta love their spirit, they never give up! Ganbarou!!
OKAY AGAIN! This time I'm really stopping babbling here. See ya~~~ Until my next update! *Phew!
A lot has changed in these 2 half years. First, I am going to graduate as an ACCA student this September ( I pray hard for it >< ) and am starting to think of my career and my future. Have my resume ready (CV not just yet) and starting to look for positions availability in the industry. After a little digging around, I found out that it won't be as easy as it used to be to get a job here in Ipoh. Seems that not only the number of accounting students but the graduates who are staying behind in Ipoh has increased over the years as well. Seems like the possibility of me going out to KL is fairly high. It's not certain, so we'll see.
Then, I think I've changed too. Not to say I've changed personality/ character wise, but definitely the mentality aspect. To the better though, so no worries! ^^ How have I changed huh? I think I'm wiser than before? No, not becoming a philosopher kind of wise, but I do think that I have matured a bit. I start to accept things that I've always rejected. Knowing that this is the nature of it, so why not just accept them, and see the good in them rather than torturing yourself by rejecting them while you have to live with it. Accepting others' faults definitely makes live easier :) But of course you can't just blindly accept everything. If it's wrong in the first place, if it harms others, living or not, physically or mentally, then it's wrong. *Sounds so old, maybe I am getting old..... ><
Hmm, what else happened. OH! This I can never miss telling even though as my friends you should already know. I LOVE LEAD!!LEAD DAISUKI DESU!! This is my blog, so at least let me fatt hao here. Blek! So! A brief intro on my favorite LEAD. Members are Nakadoi Hiroki (he's leaving the group end of this month! Sobs~ ) , Taniuchi Shinya ( their otosan..LOL~), Furuya Keita and Kagimoto Akira (my fav..hehe~). Age: 28, 26, 25, 25. For some reasons, they are looking cuter and cuter as they grow. Why ah? I'm constantly reading their blog as you know. They are just adorable~~~ the way they speak, their emoticons are so cute! Japan's emoticons are so different from ours! And they are very sweet too! Always thinking of their fans, asking for the fans' thoughts and also their well-being. They had a party this Friday and the next day they were worried about the fans' muscle pain. Aren't they sweet?? So sweet~~ huhu~~
Alright alright, I'll spare you from my hao-ness * my English is getting less and less proper here. There is another reason why I'm always reading their blog. That's 'cause I've started to learn Japanese. Though I don't know much yet, but reading their blogs definitely help improve my Japanese. Besides, it's fun to read their blogs and I get to learn new words, so why not? Still waiting for my study material from a certain someone. When will you come back????
Back to the topic. What else have changed? Hmm... My cousin Raymond from Australia got engaged!! Congrats!! I like his fiancee, Amy, very cheerful and friendly. Bought me a new blouse from Padini, treated me and my mum Chatime, Wendy's and many more! Hahaha~ Went climbing Bukit Kledang twice with them and I think I like it too...let's go climb it together someday!
And then err, looked at my pictures from a few years back. Don't think my appearance changed much, besides my teeth. Looked at my friends' as well and I think they've changed so much! They looked more mature and their styles changed too! From long hair to short, short to long, black to brown, straightened, etc etc. And their apparels too...we used to just wear t-shirts and shorts but some of them are actually following the trend. They still wear t-shirts and shorts a lot but at least they've started to be more in-trend while I'm still t-shirts and shorts all the way~~~~~~ Oh well, maybe when I'm finally getting to work, I'll be more aware of the trends :/
OKAY! This is getting long. I should just list out what else happened. Well, my mum fell down at Mydin's travelator and suffered femur fracture. Operated and is now walking like normal. I'm still running errands all around town as usual. And! I miss my friends!! Please fast fast come back~~~
Lastly, can't forget 311 Japan's earthquake/ tsunami. That was horrible. Read Danny Choo's *another blog I'm reading a lot as you may already know, he went to the towns which are worst hit by the tsunami and covered a few posts on it. Saw the pictures, they totally get to me. Everything was terribly damaged. Houses collapsed to their sides, some burned, some wrecked; ships and boats a few km on shore; people lost their home and some even lost their families and friends. It was heart breaking to see it even just through photos. Despite all that, the Japanese are now back on their feet, still working hard on the restoration but they are together as one. Gotta love their spirit, they never give up! Ganbarou!!
OKAY AGAIN! This time I'm really stopping babbling here. See ya~~~ Until my next update! *Phew!
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